forgiveness and apologies seem to go hand in hand

Yesterday, I (Casey) got the opportunity to preach to the Rejoice Church North Campus about forgiveness. The challenge was for each of us to consider obeying Christ by making forgiveness a spiritual discipline of our lives. It seems real easy for me to desire forgiveness from others, but not always freely desire to forgive others. Then on other occasions I seem willing to forgive and forget but refuse to want to ask forgiveness or even say humble words like: I'm sorry, will you forgive me?! In fact, sometimes asking someone to forgive you can be harder than any possible act that requires words. Recently I started reading "The Reason for Sports-A Christian Fanifesto" by Ted Kluck. This book really is just a simple collection of essays about life, sports, and Christ. It's a easy read and light on the brain. ha! But overall, Ted does a good job challenging each one of us to look at all of life, including sports through the life and teachings of Christ. In the first chapter, "It's Hard to Say I'm Sorry", Ted after telling as story about his own son, Tristan being willing to apologize after making his neighbor's nose bleed...Ted writes the following:

"The cross and the gospel, are by nature offensive. It's off-putting to suggest that sin exists in a world that tries so hard...to justify it. As athletes, we want to thank God for our touchdowns, write "all things are possible" in marker on our wrist tape or shoes, and kneel in the end zone after we score. But that's only half the story. We want to live like Jesus. Give talks. Maybe even start nonprofit foundations. But perhaps the most Christian thing we could do, from stage, is acknowledge our own sin. And as fans, we need to realize our role models are human, sinners just like us, and extend the grace to forgiven when they sin and act for their own self-interests."

It's my prayer that I will be a person who is willing to forgive others as Christ has so infinitely forgiven me. Then on many occasions when others experience the forgiveness of a brother or friend or co-worker, its in those moments they will be drawn to the greatest forgiver of all-Jesus Christ. And for that: I will never apologize.

-casey cariker